I just entered a text message chat from the group of students of my course, and after talking a there over some days with a sophomore (most of the chat was just me interacting) someone said “wow, the freshmen are really getting acquainted, writing shit and what else”. That was so out pocket, closed the app and now I am ranting here, is this still kind of behavior normal in your uni/country? Its so bizarre, the guy was just sophomore. EDIT: thanks everyone for the replies, I appreciate them, I think there’s some grow on my part to be done, because this seems to be way more common than I think. Welp, kinda of a bummer anyway.

  • oceanAEnglish
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    12 hours ago

    I mean this in no insult to you, but college students are basically bigger high school students. They rarely consider how they make others feel. I wouldn’t mind it no matter how you take it. On campus I’m often surprised how undergrads act to one another.

    • LazyingHarderThanEver@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
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      12 hours ago

      Its not an insult, I would agree that I was naive/too sensitive, it was just unexpected and bummer that I wasn’t prepared for in a more grown up environment (maybe this is the correct term)?

      • oceanAEnglish
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        10 hours ago

        I think you were maybe expecting a more grown up environment and you didn’t get one. I’m a Phd Candidate and people can still be so random in how they speak to others. I too can easily get annoyed at such. Maybe we are both sensitive, but others rarely considers how they speak affects those around them.