Casual Conversation @lemm.eeEnglish · 4 days ago

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Casual Conversation @lemm.eeEnglish · 4 days ago

One time when I was in highschool, I was having those flashbacks. Memories of things I said that made me cringe. So I decided in order to stop creating more of those, I would keep quiet as much as possible. I’d only talk when someone talks to me.

The next day a classmate had a fight with his friend and switched places to sit next to me. I kept my rule and only spoke when spoken to. It was awkward silence the whole day. By the end I saw him moving back to sit with his old friend.

“I thought you were with droning_in_my_ears?”

“I tried, but he doesn’t say anything!”

Damn. Could’ve made a new friend. That’s when I decided better cringe than boring and ended my mute phase.

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Aw how nice of you :D

Yeah this story is so long ago. I don’t have as many flashbacks anymore. When I do I usually yell:

“Memories of the past, let me be!”

Seems to work.

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