• shalafi@lemmy.world
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    19 hours ago

    Who has to ask permission for a kiss?!

    “Uh… can I… um… you know… uh…”

    I’ve had enough girls give me that, “STFU and kiss me you idiot” look, which closely resembles the, “WTF is he waiting for?” look. Can’t image the look if I was asking first.

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          34 minutes ago

          Interesting post. There definitely has been an increase in autism diagnoses which stems from it being much more widely accepted and looked into. There are significant differences between what’s described in the post and what I know of autism though. While I think what you show in this post is problematic, not 1:1 with autism at all IMO

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      17 hours ago

      My problem is that look is so similar to the “Oh, God, he’s not thinking about kissing me, is he?” look.

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        If you lean in, she’s leaning in, faces close, DO IT.

        If you find a girl with her face closing in, I promise you, she’s likely waiting on you to make the move. DO IT.

        One of my favorite lines was from Dostoevsky: “She was greatly moved (?) by his daring.” Something like that. Finally hit me. Yeah, women like a man who is bold.

        That’s not a license to be a jerk. That means to be decisive.

        “But what if she didn’t want me to kiss her?”

        Then she wouldn’t have put her face so close to yours. Women aren’t clueless.

        I gotta put a caveat in there for the guys: If you’re not really into her, just swept up in the moment, back the fuck up. Kiss that girl, she’s taking you seriously. If you’re not serious, stop.