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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • FoxyFerengi@lemm.eetoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comFair point
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    17 days ago

    The point is that ADHD is an executive function disorder. There’s a lot of inertia to overcome before starting a task for someone with this disorder. It’s not like she didn’t know it was urgent or important, that actually probably played right into why she couldn’t do it




  • I do actually have AvPD. I was diagnosed at the same time as I was with ADHD (at 35), and it was really a huge surprise to me that I had this whole disorder that I wasn’t even aware of. I had barely left my house in the four years leading up to that, so maybe I should have had an inkling lol.

    I have to say that either my experience with AvPD is extremely different than what’s often presented, or a lot of “experts” don’t really understand what they are talking about. Dr. Honda knows what he’s talking about, though. Thank you for sharing ^^




  • Anne McCaffrey was a favorite author of mine when I was a young teen. Some of her stuff is fantasy meets sci-fi, like the Dragon Riders of Pern series. The Crystal Singer was the only book I read of the crystal series, but it’s definitely young adult sci-fi. I’m dating myself, but I read it when Eiffel65 had released Europop, and I can’t help but think of that book whenever I hear one of those songs lol.

    In Conquest Born by C. S. Friedman is my favorite book from my older teen years, it’s very political but also has complex descriptions of the technology in universe. She’s also won awards for her Coldfire trilogy, which I enjoyed but is definitely fantasy and not sci-fi





  • There is a melting point experiment I did in a college chemistry lab that involved melting glass tubing just to the point that we could stretch it to create a much thinner tube. Glass (depending on type) melts at a much higher temperature than what you’re using here for splicing, so that might be an easier and more reusable method for you?

    Edit: search for “glass delivery tube”, should get you to what we used. Make sure it’s borosilicate and not polycarbonate



  • Just tagging on for your post-it note thing: I’ve found out absurdly helpful to put post-it flags (they’re actually called that lol) in places my adhd strikes hardest so I at least have a visual reminder something needs to be done. I have a couple on my TV, and even though I haven’t actually used the TV in months, it’s in a good location for that my eyes wander to. Alarms and notifications are easy for me to ignore/mute or get annoyed by, the flags are inoffensive and passive


  • Why my friend didn’t get one that would fit, I don’t really know, but I suspect it’s because he’s still financially and mentally recovering from being a homeless teen. A handmade quilt that size would solve his problem, but it was also a way for us to show him we love him and he deserves to be warm at night


  • This varies by human size and blanket size.

    One of my friends recently said he never had his shoulders and feet covered at the same time, and another friend who is shorter than I am shared a look of horror with me. I’m 5’3" and regularly tuck excess blanket under my feet and legs like a makeshift sleeping bag, it never occurred to me that this isn’t something everyone can do. Anyway, we decided it’s not okay for him to live life that way and made him an 8’x6’ quilt. He almost cried when we gave it to him lol.