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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • Perhaps I could offer some perspective, since I do have a peanut and pistachio allergy. First of all, many people have allergies to specific nuts but not all nuts. Peanuts are actually legumes, and the allergy is to a specific protein. I eat almonds almost daily. I enjoy walnuts and pecans, macadamia nuts, etc. Some people are allergic to all of these nuts, but in my experience that’s actually fairly rare.

    Baklava is traditionally made with walnuts. If you don’t have an allergy to walnuts and you’re sure it’s made just just walnuts and not some other nut you’re allergic to, then it’s not unreasonable to eat it.

    Sadly, lots of nuts are labeled one nut but actually contain a mixture of nuts. One Christmas my aunt poisoned me with pecans in a salad. When I started having an anaphylactic reaction she checked the can which said in small print that it was 80% pecan 20% mixed nuts including peanut, pistachio, cashew, almond, and others. I spent Christmas in the ER.

    Enjoying this delicious treat without an allergy kit is unwise. Some schools are crazy about kids having medication, but I think that’s ridiculous. I have all my allergy medication and syringes in a glasses case and I take it everywhere. I have one in my backpack, one in my car, one in my office, they’re everywhere. When you have a serious allergy like this, you should always know where to find it without having to think (every minute counts) and you should always have a bottle of water or know how to get water in an emergency to swallow meds. (When I board a plane, I always buy a bottle of water after I get through security.)

    As for leaving school to get to a pharmacy if she didn’t have meds, I say smart. It’s criminal that the school doesn’t have an allergy kit. But sometimes you need to take matters into your own hands and be your own advocate. I’ve frequently made the call that I cannot wait for an ambulance to take me to a hospital, I need to drive myself to the closest ER because I can get there faster–even without lights and sirens–than waiting for an ambulance to drive essentially twice the distance. I know this is controversial but I’d rather die controlling my own destiny.

    As for why she did not take this seriously, I can say that I’ve had lots of reactions with different levels of severity. Sometimes you spit the thing out right away without ingesting it. The reaction might be slower in this case, but can still be fatal. She probably thought she had more time. Once the allergin contacts a mucous membrane you’re toast. It’s not like you can wash your mouth out with soap and water–yes, I’ve actually tried that–doesn’t do shit. Once time I had peanut butter on my hands (unwittingly) and wiped my eyes. Full blown reaction just from touching my eye lids with peanut butter residue. That was a wild incident because I had no idea what was happening. Found out some kids had a birthday party at the location earlier in the day and they had PB&J sandwiches. Evidently they didn’t clean up too well.

    It can be a tough thing to live with, but the person with the allergy often feels a lot of guilt for causing inconvenience for everybody around them. I hate being that guy with the peanut allergy. And nothing is worse than boarding a plane where people are already annoyed that they don’t serve peanuts and having to tell somebody in my row that I have a severe allergy and I’d really appreciate if they didn’t eat their Reeses cups and peanut bars. I do remind them that it probably beats the disruption of an emergency landing in a different city, though.

    I feel for all involved. Anyway, hope that helps. Just my perspective.