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Cake day: January 26th, 2021

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  • Positivity

    Try to find something valuable in every interaction, situation and in every person you meet. I have no problems admitting when something didn’t go over well. But I can squeeze something out of everything that happens to me.

    It’s a little bit more difficult with people. I can’t bring myself to always engage in a positive way with everybody. But I admire the people who can.

    I generally find it very endearing when people have a positive outlook on life and loving, empathic relations with their peers. Especially if they managed to overcome hardship.








  • I have a 7yo son and I do not regret having him at all.

    I became a father pretty late in life, so I did all the traveling and partying I could before. Everybody around me started having kids anyway, and less friends where available when we were making plans.

    Sure, life changes drastically when you have a child, but with a family of my own I now feel more rooted in life. It’s a quality of it’s own.

    It was a nice time before, and I sure miss being able to decide more independently how to spend my time. But our family is a team with common interests and we enjoy spending time together.

    As my son starts to be more independent himself, we now start following our own plans again one bit at a time. It is definitely a give and take scenario, but we three get a lot from it 😊.

    Edit: More words to make things clearer.