Thank you very much. I am feeling a bit better, well enough to WFH since yesterday.
Proud owner of Miez (born 2013)
and previous owner of Koda and Lilly (2013&2021)
M&K ended up fighting all the time. I then took in L as a new playmate for Koda. Luckily K&L found a new home with friends
Thank you very much. I am feeling a bit better, well enough to WFH since yesterday.
He either play-fights with Lilly (hard) or just basically lays down and lets you entertain him. He has always been an indoor cat, and his hunting skills are basically zero. He and Lilly are allowed in the garden but only Lilly catches mice from time to time.
I feel you. I was really lucky that I could give two of my cats to a friends family when I had to separate them. In between I had to give up all of my cats due to my health issues. It distroyed me, it tore such a big hole in me. Luckily I got to take Miez back after my health improved. I thought she was in good hands, but I was dead wrong. When the elderly woman that took her in had a broken leg (complicated bone fracture, took several months to heal) she starten smoking on the couch right next to Miez, and now Miez is asthmatic.
My brother in law never sneezes once. He always sneezes at least three times.
I don’t think he’s bitter towards Miez. Regularly he tested my limits as well and I had make it unmistakably clear that I don’t tolerate rule expandings. He just thinks he can get away with bad behaviour towards Miez as she is weaker than her. Lilly on the other hand doesn’t give a shit and just counter-attacks. To be frank, Koda is a real bitch. He just needs a lot of cuddles which is the only reason he behaves well from time to time.
Oh yeah. He has been a healer for Lilly. She was a really scared kitty when I added her to my family, even hurting herself due to a nervous issue. She would hiss at everyone and hide all the time. Guess she was very impressed by him nonchalantly walking past her. After a few weeks she began strolling after him and finally went to full cuddle mode, see the last pics in this album: https://imgur.com/gallery/WLP5OXS
Oh yeah. Last time Koda and Miez saw each other, they had not seen each other for over a year. Miez was interested and sniffling, approaching him. What did the idiot do? BAMM slapped her right in the face.
Miez is always trying to get as far away from him as possible. Koda on the other hand has always been bitchy. Lilly somehow got really hardened and doesn’t give a shit, and constantly stirs shit with him.
He always behaves like a total dick towards her.
Yeah Miez is the perfect companion. She knows exactly how I feel all the time and takes advantage of all the cuddles.