• PugJesus@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    All my teachers loved me

    “I know you’re smart but” was a constant refrain of my school days, usually followed by “but you need to apply yourself”

    I was never very funny, funny enough.

    [leg shakes table and everyone asks what’s doing that]

    • BougieBirdie@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      4 months ago

      I once sat in on a parent/teacher meeting with my brother. The teacher lamented that my brother could be doing so much better if he just applied himself.

      He had a 96 in the course. You know how much better he could do if he applied himself? 4%. Doesn’t seem like it would be worth the effort, y’know?

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        4 months ago

        I constantly went head to head with my school’s Spanish teacher because I was bored and she was a bitch. Eventually the principal had a meeting with my mom and said, “look, I know your son is smarter than her, but could you ask him to chill a bit?”

  • AmbiguousProps@lemmy.today
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    4 months ago

    Too real.

    RLS sucks, gabapentin seems to help in larger doses but I still get the urge to punch my thighs off and do cardio at 3am.

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    4 months ago

    My kid doesn’t have ADHD

    I went undiagnosed until mid-30s, then I finally get treatment, which allowed me to finally finish my degree while making Dean’s List while getting the rest of my life in order.

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      3 months ago

      Glad to hear that you had improved your life. What were your symptoms? I tried to get treated, but since I was highly functional (smartass) and didn’t show hyperactivity during childhood, the Dr believes I only have procrastination problem when I know it isn’t just that (I have terrible attention since reaching adulthood). He gave me another appointment (which I consider not going), because I don’t see any point convincing people who had never experienced this kind of problem.

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        3 months ago

        Find the right doctor that will listen to you. I went to a psychologist, GPs might be a bit harder. Hyperactivity, impulsively, attention issues. You might not have clearly shown symptoms from a mile away but you probably had them if you looked long enough. Since getting treatment, I’ve improved my life beyond what I thought was possible. I’m two quarters away from finishing my masters with a 3.7.

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          3 months ago

          I’ll try to find another opinion from another psychologist. Thanks for the advice. Btw good luck on your masters!

  • ExcessShiv@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    4 months ago

    “sounds of mom crying somewhere”

    Uuh…yeah that’s not part of growing up with ADHD, at least not universally in any way…and what’s with the bruised legs?