I am of the age to have kids, some of my friends have them, but I have mixed feelings about it, just wondering about other people’s experiences.

  • garbagebagel@lemmy.world
    17·
    7 hours ago

    Early 30s and no.

    1. the world has enough people
    2. I have no interest in giving up my comforts for another being right now
    3. I never asked to be here and I hate that I am most of the time so why would I force that on another being
    4. if I ever change my mind and am in a good enough spot economically I will just adopt. imo if I can’t afford to adopt then I can’t afford a child and I’m fine with that.
    5. I’m stoked about being the weird/cool auntie, parenthood would take that away from me