I am of the age to have kids, some of my friends have them, but I have mixed feelings about it, just wondering about other people’s experiences.

  • oceanAEnglish
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    2 days ago

    Honestly I’m not sure I’d recommend it. It’s really hard and it completely changing everything: life, marriage, work life balance, sleep, stress, etc.

    I wouldn’t change having one but it was not made clear to me how unbelievably hard it is.

    If you’re in a culture where you parents actually help it’s more doable. Assuming you’re a westerner then it’s hard.