• Fizz@lemmy.nz
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        23 hours ago

        Real men pick a fictional character and base their entire personality of it.

      • BossDj@lemm.ee
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        1 day ago

        Unless it harms others.

        *this started as I was thinking about abusive men being mostly a result of their fear of inadequacy. But then, I realized TikTok is harmful to everyone for multiple reasons. So now I’m on the other guy’s side.

        • nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          1 day ago

          It seems pretty obvious that “real men do what they want” is pointing out toxic masculinity. IOW the whole “real men” with qualifiers is bullshit.

          • Ricky Rigatoni@lemm.ee
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            REAL MEN identify as MEN. But sometimes they also identify as SOMETHING ELSE but STILL consider themselves in the same BALLPARK AS MEN.

            Bevause Reelale mena love Babaaseball ⚾

        • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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          For you, sure. And for me. But maybe other men are into it.

          Real men do what makes them and those around them happy. And real women, and everyone in between.

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      1 day ago

      Bruh, don’t start this ‘real men’ bullshit here… I didn’t came her just to see Insta comments

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          1 day ago

          His account was a few hours old and you have just annoyed the new user, you should receive an award or something.

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            I mean the OP was also named “goated” and their account is less than a day old. Let the children throw sand in their sandbox

            Edit: realized you’re responding to the other person. Their account is less than five days old. Comment stands