• chaotic_altruist@lemm.ee
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      11 hours ago

      Seems none of the 4 signs include sexual attraction toward males and females. Would love to know what the 4 mentioned signs actually are for context

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        #1 You have nipples.
        #2 You like things inside you.
        #3 You like rubbing or licking things.
        #4 You’ve said “A hole is a hole”.

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        It might also be aimed at (and hopefully made by) young people who are often very concerned with their sexuality, even before they have enough practical experience and /or self knowledge to know if they’re sexually attracted to anyone.

        I didn’t recognize my first crush on a girl until over a decade later, because it was different from my crushes on boys. I thought I just admired her a lot. I had gotten to second base at least with half a dozen of my female friends before I thought I might be into girls (I was not especially self-aware). Hell, I lost my virginity to a girl and didn’t realize it until years later. I could see this being a list for people like me, who are somehow missing the obvious.

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            We went by the four Fs: 1)French, 2)feel (above the waist), 3)finger (anything below the waist), 4)fuck. Fellatio would fit right in, but we didn’t really use it and counted that as base 3.5.

            Which is why I didn’t initially realize I lost my virginity to a girl, because we just went to 3.5. I was talking to someone about it and they literally looked at me and were like “so gold star lesbians are just all virgins?” and I realized I was being an idiot.

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        maybe they just telling “bisexual behavior” not in sexual context like “you love staring at your meal for 2 minutes before you eat” lmao

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        Nonsense! It’s all about wanting to eat out people, sleep with them, people making you smile and secretly being in love with some of your friends!

        /s

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      I looked it up. It’s from a deliberately “cringe” creator. The 4 things from the video are

      • you like eating
      • you like sleeping
      • you like smiling
      • you like your friends
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        • I have an eating disorder. I hate eating.

        • I have a fear of missing anything. I hate sleeping.

        • My frown is permanent and smiling hurts my cheeks at about the height of my nose

        • I hate my friends because it makes me feel like I have to contribute something.