• Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      6·
      3 days ago

      Same. I might be able to pick a few of mine out of the yearbook if I had to find their names somehow, but I wouldn’t know them if I saw them now.

    • undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch
      6·
      2 days ago

      Same here. I left my small town at 18 for the next town over, a few years later moved across the country. I have no idea what’s happened with anyone in my class since we left high school.

  • NABDad@lemmy.worldEnglish
    43·
    3 days ago

    He got brain cancer and died.

    My mom was horrified when I was happy about it. I told her the person I was before him would not have been happy, but he destroyed that person.

    If I weren’t agnostic, I’d say I hope he rots in hell. As it is, I’m just glad the world has lost another piece of shit.

  • Lumidaub@feddit.org
    32·
    3 days ago

    I haven’t talked to anyone from my school days since the second I got out so 乁⁠༼⁠☯⁠‿⁠☯⁠✿⁠༽⁠ㄏ

  • superduperpirate@lemmy.worldEnglish
    30·
    3 days ago

    I didn’t have a bully in high school, but my middle school bully is serving a life sentence with no possibility of parole - he broke into an old woman’s house, raped her, murdered her, robbed her house, and got caught because he used her credit cards at the mall.

  • Smokeydope@lemmy.worldEnglish
    8·
    3 days ago

    I imagine what happened to them is the same as most regular people. Some of them found a career they may or may not enjoy, got married to someone out of love or fear of being alone, popped a couple kids, and are now relaxing while watching a sports game on the TV.

    School was over a decade ago, kids are shitheads with raging hormones flowing through their underdeveloped brains and usually a good heaping of unresolved neglect/abuse causing further emotional issues. Point is, I don’t care to hold hate in my heart for people who dont even exist anymore as they once were and ive moved on. I hope they found what they want out of life.

  • xmunk@sh.itjust.works
    16·
    3 days ago

    Dunno. I’ve been pretty selective about who I keep in contact with.

    I hope their life is going well, though. I generally hope everyone’s life is going well.

  • dingus@lemmy.worldEnglish
    12·
    3 days ago

    Idk if she was my bully necessarily, but the interactions with that group of people fucked with me. Anyway, she became a therapist which I thought was absolutely fucking wild. I wonder if she ever thinks about the way she acted as a teen.

  • i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    10·
    3 days ago

    I didn’t really have a bully, but no one really liked me all that much. A combination of not being likable (home problems), neurodivergent, and a minority.

    I looked up one of the guys that was a jerk and apparently he’s a cop now. That tracks. The rest I really don’t remember and honestly I just don’t care that much.

  • HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com
    11·
    3 days ago

    which one? I joke. Had sorta a grade school bully but not really high school. I mean there were jerks. Who keeps track of this kind of thing??? I don’t even keep up with my high school friends unfortunately. I would have to really work to find people I did not like.

    • orcrist@lemm.ee
      1·
      2 days ago

      Sometimes people use FB to look up old acquaintances. I don’t, but it is a thing that one could do, and in fact many people do it.

      Probably this also depends how often you moved. For example, if you moved away at age 18 and then somewhere else at age 22 or whatever, and will never go back to where you once were, it’s probably not so interesting to keep track of the past jerks. But if you’re still in the same city or region, maybe you would care more.